I love meeting couples, the energy between them is contagious and I always leave feeling refreshed and energized. But, the one thing I try to suggest that my brides do is incorporate some more masculine elements into their wedding. Everyone loves a pink wedding, but why not use charcoal gray as chargers? That small change, can make the reception not appear so overwhelmingly girly. Don't get me wrong, I am a girly girl, but I loved the fact that my husband also felt like the day was his when we got married. Ladies, the day is yours, but don't forget there is someone else standing up there wtih you. Happy planning!